HLGStrider
12-22-2003, 07:21 AM
A charge leveled at me recently stated I didn't take the judging of a guild debate "seriously enough." This is debateable, and I admit a weakness in not taking most things seriously enough. . .then that debate broke into a quarrel over judging. One member called another member very nasty names. That member responded in a surly manner. The mods closed the thread.
Seems that was taken pretty seriously. I also know that when giving me some advice about my judging, another member listed two members he said would "tear me apart" for judging the way I had. . .so is this usual? This tearing people apart over judging methods?
Are these debates really life and death? Do they matter THAT much? Too me, they don't. I admit it. I don't take the debates that seriously. However, I try to take the people within the debates, and without, seriously. The debates have to me minimal value when compared to the members. . .all members. No member has more value than another.
If we are willing to tear each other apart over these debates, then it seems we must take them pretty seriously. More seriously than we do each other. . .
I'll hazard a remark that we take them too seriously.
Will the forum fall apart if someone makes a faulty judgement? No.
Will the forum fall apart if someone makes a flippant judgement? No.
Will the forum fall apart if someone dislikes the way someone else judged? No.
Will the forum fall apart if we all start calling each other names? I don't know, but I'm not willing to take the risk.
So, how seriously do you take the debates?
Now, this thread COULD turn into a thread that needs to be closed. . .if we take it too seriously, perhaps? Or if we don't, perhaps?
Don't let it happen. We can think. We can take each other seriously.
Let's try it.
Seems that was taken pretty seriously. I also know that when giving me some advice about my judging, another member listed two members he said would "tear me apart" for judging the way I had. . .so is this usual? This tearing people apart over judging methods?
Are these debates really life and death? Do they matter THAT much? Too me, they don't. I admit it. I don't take the debates that seriously. However, I try to take the people within the debates, and without, seriously. The debates have to me minimal value when compared to the members. . .all members. No member has more value than another.
If we are willing to tear each other apart over these debates, then it seems we must take them pretty seriously. More seriously than we do each other. . .
I'll hazard a remark that we take them too seriously.
Will the forum fall apart if someone makes a faulty judgement? No.
Will the forum fall apart if someone makes a flippant judgement? No.
Will the forum fall apart if someone dislikes the way someone else judged? No.
Will the forum fall apart if we all start calling each other names? I don't know, but I'm not willing to take the risk.
So, how seriously do you take the debates?
Now, this thread COULD turn into a thread that needs to be closed. . .if we take it too seriously, perhaps? Or if we don't, perhaps?
Don't let it happen. We can think. We can take each other seriously.
Let's try it.